I have been asked to say a few words on behalf of
The Nature Conservancy, an organization to which Surain devoted
thirteen years and committed herself completely to protecting
the planet she loved so well. I am honored to do so. Of course,
like all of you, my relationship with Surain goes far beyond a
single dimension. So I'd like to speak to Surain, and to Robert
today about what is in my heart for you.
My dear Surain: I want to share with you a few of
the memories I most cherish. They reveal the very personal gifts
you have given to me. I only wish you could see the shining
eyes gathered here, how they tell countless stories like mine.
My very first awareness of you came on a day in early
August, 1988, when I stood, harried and flustered, surrounded
by moving boxes in my home in Boise, Idaho, on the eve of my trip
to Seattle to start my new job with The Nature Conservancy. The
postman arrived to deliver a card and, upon opening it, I found
a message, signed by all the staff members, welcoming me in advance
to my new job. How can I tell you how that single moment, your
doing, of course, has lived in my heart - simple and thoughtful
act which gave me my first impression of what it would be like
to join The Nature Conservancy of Washington.
Do you remember how, in 1991, a group of us at "WAFO,"
as you always called the Washington Field Office, decided we wanted
to recognize you for your many contributions as our office manager
to the smoothe running of things. We nominated you for recognition
in the Conservancy-wide publication called the One Conservancy.
You were, of course, shy about receiving honor, but agreed, nevertheless,
to let me interview you. No wonder that your colleagues described
you as "the glue that holds us all together." And what
I loved most, and have thought about countless times in the day
to day of my own life, was how you said that "Whenever a
task crosses my desk, I always try to make it easier for the next
person down the line." That's exactly how it was and
what a difference that philosophy made!!
Surain, more than ten years later, your gentle hand
is still at work in our office. I see it in the fine tradition
of acknowledgment you cultivated, your insistence that, no matter
how large we grew, it's still important to take the time to remember
the special occasions of each and every person.
For me, Surain, yours is an extraordinary gift of
seeing - whether a task to do or the special needs of a friend,
or the sheer beauty of the natural world your treasured so dearly.
The amazing thing is how a gift like that can open the world
for those around you.
Just a few weeks ago, I told you how, on a heartachingly
beautiful, crystal clear morning here in Seattle, your presence
brought me in touch with the miracle of a new day dawning. As
I told you then, I watched from my window the light over the
snowclad Olympic Mountains shift from rose to violet to gold and
saw it as if through your eyes. What I said then, and is still
true, was that I saw the day as never before, moved to a deeper
awareness of the preciousness of just this moment. Your presence
then, as now, is like a glorious music, the very best that life
has to offer.
I felt that same sense, just a few days ago when,
sitting across the table from our mutual friend Laura, we were
sharing our sadness. As she spoke of you and of Robert, through
her tears, she was more radiant than I have ever seen her. The
only way to say it is that love filled that room to overflowing.
Of course, it is in your relationship with Robert
that many of us have found our greatest inspiration and, for many
of us, that's the hardest part of your leaving us.
And so, I turn to Robert. To say I am truly awed
by the example of your life together, the sheer ground you covered
round and round the world, your insatiable desire to explore
and understand other cultures and then bring the best of them
home to share with all of us. By the profound care you took of
each other through the most difficult of times. I pray today
that my own marriage with my husband Mark may be worthy of such
an example.
Robert and Surain - together you have brought such
joy to this world and created among us all a community of caring.
We now extend to you our arms and our hearts in love and care
for you.